One Saturday morning in the
summer that I turned eight, my father peered across the breakfast table
at me and said, “I guess you’ve been doing a lot of fishing
lately, huh?”
That was the idyllic summer when the fishing bug sank its fangs into
me and infected me for life. I was too young to work, too young for
girls, but old enough to wander off by myself. So I fished every day,
all day.
A muddy ten-acre pond lay over the hill behind our house, a four-minute
walk for a kid who couldn’t wait to get there. That pond was a
magical place for an eight-year-old boy. It churned with warmwater life
-- frogs, turtles, dragonflies, muskrats, raccoons, minks, herons, ducks
. . . and fish. Wondrous fish. Bluegills, punkinseeds, crappies, yellow
perch, horned pout, pickerel, suckers, eels, and now and then a stunted
largemouth bass.
“Yes, sir,” I answered my father. “I love fishing.”
He pushed himself away from the table. “Then it’s time we
got you a proper pole.”
Now this was a strange notion. I already had my own fly rod, and for
a clumsy kid I was pretty handy with it. It was a three-piece 8-foot
Montague. Maybe I knew my Montague was a cheap, mass-produced stick,
but the bamboo was a beautiful burnished bronze color, and my Pfleuger
Medalist reel had a musical click when I stripped line off it. My outfit
was the envy of the neighborhood kids, most of whom used either Zebco
spin-casting outfits or steel telescoping rods with old bait-casting
reels taped to the handle.
I did a lot of digging in our vegetable garden that summer, and I found
that with my sweet Montague fly rod I could lob a gob of worms pretty
far out there without losing my bait. I didn’t know it was called
a roll cast. But I could do it.
So I already had a proper pole . . . although Dad’s use of the
word “pole” threw me. He was the one who insisted it was
called a “rod.”
But I knew better than to question my father. So I followed him into
the woods out back, where he began narrowing his eyes at the clumps
of saplings that grew there. After a lot of frowning and shaking his
head, he selected a straight-growing poplar whip. It was about ten feet
long and a little less than an inch thick at the base.
“What do you think?” he said.
I shrugged. “Looks okay to me.”
He handed me his pocket knife, and I cut down the sapling, trimmed the
leaves and twigs off it, and waved it in the air.
I handed it to him, and he made casting motions with it. “Perfect,”
he said.
We peeled the bark off it and cut a foot off the tip, then took it home
and rigged it with butcher’s twine.
“There,” Dad said. “Now you’ve got yourself
a real fishing pole. Tie on some leader and a hook, make yourself a
cork-stopper bobber, dig a can of worms, and go fishing.”
What, I wondered, was wrong with my slick Montague bamboo fly rod? But
I didn’t ask, and he didn’t explain. So I obeyed my father
and took my new pole fishing.
After that slender Montague, my poplar pole turned out to be heavy and
stiff and clumsy. I couldn’t roll cast with it for beans, but
after a while I got so I could lob a bobber-and-worm far enough out
there to catch perch and horned pout and derrick them in.
I stuck with that pole for about a week before I started sneaking out
to my pond with my Montague fly rod. I never told Dad that I’d
hidden our home-made poplar pole behind the woodpile. Luckily for me,
he didn’t ask how it was working, because I’d prepared a
lie about how I busted it hauling in a big sucker, and I didn’t
like lying to my father. I felt guilty enough as it was. For some reason,
it was important to him that I fish with that clunky pole we’d
cut from the woods.
Pretty soon, when he saw that I was truly and forever hooked on fishing,
Dad started taking me with him. We traveled all over New England --
usually just the two of us, but sometimes with one of his adult fishing
pals. We trolled streamers for landlocked salmon, we cast dry flies
for trout and deerhair bugs for bass, and sometimes we used fly rods
to drift worms in little woodland streams.
Dad and I went off fishing just about every weekend from April through
September. That was my childhood. I was a lucky kid, and lucky me, I
knew it.
In all that time, I don’t recall my father ever once giving me
a fishing lesson. He insisted I learn the Turle Knot (for tying a fly
to a leader tippet) and the Blood Knot (for tying tippet to leader).
After that, I was on my own. I learned to cast a fly the way I learned
to lob a gob of worms out there -- by trying and failing and trying
it differently until it began to work better. I learned where fish hung
out by putting my worm or fly in different places and letting the fish
guide me.
I suspect Dad had to bite his tongue a thousand times. It would’ve
been easy for him to say: “No, no. Do it this way.” But
he never did.
We just went fishing together. He did it his way, and I did it mine,
and you can be sure I watched him closely, because it was pretty obvious
that his ways worked better than mine did.
A hundred times when I was growing up, and even years afterwards, I
thought about asking my father why he’d insisted I fish with that
poplar pole. But I never did. Maybe it was the guilt I never quite kicked
about hiding the clumsy old thing behind the woodpile, though I have
a strong suspicion that he knew exactly what I was doing.
Eventually I had three kids of my own. They all showed interest in fishing,
and I was sorry that we didn’t live in a house with a warmwater
pond just over the hill out back. I never did cut them a poplar pole.
Maybe I should have. But I did spent a lot of time in canoes with each
of them, and I found myself biting my tongue and letting them fool around
until they got the hang of it. I remembered the satisfaction I had felt
whenever I figured something out for myself, and I didn’t want
to deprive my kids of that feeling.
Gradually, as I watched my own kids bumble and fumble, try and err and
try again, and finally grin and shout when they got it right, I figured
I knew how Dad would’ve explained why he’d insisted I use
that poplar pole. “First principles, my boy,” he’d
have said. “Begin at the beginning. Do it the hard way first.
Try and err and figure it out for yourself. Don’t skip any steps.
You can’t really appreciate where you are unless you know how
you got there and where you came from.”
Home-made poplar poles, butcher’s twine, cork-stopper bobbers,
gobs of garden worms, suckers and eels -- they’re every angler’s
legacy, and if you skipped that part, well, when it’s time to
take a kid fishing, cut her a proper pole and resist the impulse to
tell her how to use it. Let her begin at the beginning. You’ll
see what I’m talking about.
